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Does this feel familiar?
When we get into relationships, we all have the highest of hopes. We want to be loved and appreciated. We want our needs to finally be met after a string of unsuccessful romantic relationships.
But sometimes that makes us vulnerable to narcissists. They will show up at the beginning parts of the relationship and love bomb us, meet our needs, and make us feel truly appreciated.
And before you know it, they've flipped the script and made us feel crazy, overwhelmed, and totally upset.
But by that point, we are invested. We don't feel like we can walk away.
We feel like we need to stay and fix whatever went wrong.
Survivors of narcissistic abuse will find themselves doing anything they can to get back to that beginning part of the relationship when things felt perfect. We will wrack our brains trying to figure out what went wrong and how to fix it.
Our nervous systems will be loud (and overwhelmed) about something not being quite right but we won't know what to do with that information. We need help understanding what has happened to us.
Let's Get EducatedHere's the problem...
It's hard to know what to do when you've felt crazy for so long...
You've been gaslit and it's normal to feel like you no longer trust yourself.
After narcissistic abuse, you might feel:
- Frozen and unable to make decisions for yourself because you've lost that inner voice that guides you.
- Like you're crazy and in constant need of reassurance that you are doing the right thing for yourself and your mental health.
- Stuck between wanting the relationship to return back to its glory days and wanting to get off the epic merry-go-round.

Here's the good news
I'm here to set you free.
You just need to understand how narcissism works so you feel less lost in your recovery process.
You can learn how to understand the gaslighting and love-bombing that happens in relationships with narcissists.
You can learn to advocate for your needs and feel a little less crazy while doing so.
You can start to feel like less of a mess and more like an empowered trauma survivor.
I'm saying "yes" to recoveryIntroducing
Surviving Narcissistic Abuse: Masterclass
A masterclass to help you understand the science of narcissism and how you can keep yourself safe when interacting with folks with toxic forms of narcissim.
Perfect for:
Parents, partners, trauma survivors, teachers, caregivers, single folks, cult and religious trauma survivors, and anyone wanting to feel more connected to themselves and less confused by abusive behaviors in relationships
Focus One
Information-packed and digestible video on the science of narcissism, including the major categories of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism.
Focus Two
Learn about the primary big 5 personality traits that play a big role in different types of narcissism. Learn about scientific studies that support trait theory.
Focus Three
Do a deep dive into understanding how to protect yourself against narcissistic behavioral patterns, including how to co-parent.
Focus FOUR
Learn how to navigate safety and advocate for your needs with the new information you have on narcissism.
Here's where you'll learn
Everything you need to know about narcissism in relationships
Think about it this way...
What happens when I start to understand narcissism in a deeper way?
- Imagine being able to show up to new relationships understanding what happened in your last one and feeling confident about your new ability to sniff out narcissistic traits.
- Imagine repairing your relationship with yourself that was lost while trying to please the narcissist in your life.
- Imagine gaining your self-confidence back after a long season of feeling lost and overwhelmed and full of self-doubt.
- Imagine being able to move on with your life instead of spending years scared to open yourself up again because of what happened in your last relationships.
- Imagine coping with normal life stress without fear that you're crazy, losing your mind, or have lost touch with reality.

Stevie saw this happen after joining Traumastery:
"This has literally transformed my relationships. I had no idea I had so much anxiety about relating to others but now I have tools for negotiating my needs. "

Megan said this after joining Traumastery:
"I thought my relationships were doomed after trauma. I just didn't know how to trust anyone. Turns out, I had some attachment trauma that I was able to really understand in this course."
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Meet your teacher
Hi, I'm Dr. Quincee
I am a clinical psychologist that specializes in religious trauma and nervous system regulation. Not sure how the two are related? I hear that a lot.
I'm not just interested in how religious trauma plays out for folks while inside of the groups. I'm interested in how it impacts them as they try to put their lives back together. That's where I see folks struggling with their attachment wounds, codependency, deeply embedded trauma responses, and totally dysregulated nervous systems. It's a LOT to get out of a cult and these survivors have taught me so much.

But lets focus on the narcissism...
Guess who usually leads cults and toxic churches? Narcissists.
Guess who starts little cults in their households and make their whole families behave? Narcissists.
Guess who will guilt trip trauma survivors and make them feel like they're the only problem in relationships? Narcissists.
Turns out specializing in religious trauma and cult abuse makes you really aware of narcissistic abuse. That's why helping trauma survivors get out of relationships with narcissists means so much to me.
You don't have to white-knuckle it through triggers any longer.
Here's how you get started
1. Join Surviving Narcissistic Abuse masterclass
Click the enrollment button and follow the checkout steps. In minutes, you'll get an email will your login details. You can get started immediately or move at a pace you feel great about.
2. Dive in and take action
Dive into the content and take action. Can’t start right away? It's okay, you have a year's access to the course. You'll get prompts to continue each part of the course so you get the most out of the experience.
3. Start feeling more knowledgable
Finally feel like you understand what happened to you within your narcissistic relationships and how you can get your life back again. Use science-backed tools to help you thrive again.

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Our 7-day Traumastery test drive means you can try our education program and if you aren't digging it, you can get a refund with no questions asked.
This is for you if:
- You have experienced a relationship with a narcissist and you are more confused than ever about what to do with the aftermath of that relationship.
- You have found a way to survive each day with the narcissist but you don't have a clue how to help yourself now that you've decided to walk away.
- You are tired of the ups and downs of feeling easily triggered and you just want to feel safe again.

This is not for you if:
- You aren't a trauma survivor and don't relate at all to the experience of being in a relationship with a narcissist.
- You are totally comfortable with your emotional experience after trauma and don't think you need to address any toxic dynamics.
Are you ready to understand narcissism on a deep and impactful level?
Hint: This is your moment!
No more white-knuckling it through.
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I don't live in California. Can I still participate?
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I have a family member that needs this class. What can I do?
Real talk, my friend
Narcissism does a real number on us.
You've been gaslit for so long that you probably need someone to help you understand what happened to you.
It's time to feel in control of your life again. After all, everywhere you go, there you'll be. We want that to be a healthy and safe experience to be inside of your own experience.
Here's what's waiting for you on the other side of your narcissistic relationship:
- Freedom to feel connected and safe in the presence of other people.
- Shedding that gnawing voice that tells you that everyone is unsafe all of the time.

Ready to reclaim your life?
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You'll be the first to know when we open this course for registrations and even get a sneaky little discount for joining the waitlist.